-Longest relationship: Almost 5 years. And it was long distance at that!
-How many boyfriends/girlfriends have told you that they love you?:
4. But the first one doesn't really count. We were very very young and had no real idea what love was. And when I say young, I mean it was 8th grade. We hardly even held hands if I recall correctly.
-Have you ever thought that you were going to marry the person you were with?:
Yes. And I did. I also thought that I was going to divorce someone that I was with, and I did that too.
-Have you ever loved someone so much that it hurt?:
No. I am not really sure how that goes. Its possible for the person you love to hurt you, but love itself is a great thing, it shouldn't hurt. Maybe I am doing it wrong.... ?
-Have you ever made a boyfriend or girlfriend cry?
Yeah. I can be pretty brutal with words.
-Are you happier single or in a relationship?
Happier in a relationship. Not because I need a man to make me happy, but because I am a pretty affectionate person. I want to hold someone's hand, and kiss them, and snuggle! Deana looks at me funny when I try to snuggle with her :p No, I definitely do not need a man for happiness. However, I do need a man for:
1. Killing spiders, because I literally have a mini heart attack when I attempt to do it myself.
2. Reaching things on the top shelf. I am short.
3. Sex. It's just not as fun by myself.
-Have you ever been cheated on?
Yep, by every guy I have dated except one (And he probably did too and I just don't know about it). That sucks a lot. If I am being honest here, my self esteem has taken a giant hit because of it. Nothing makes me feel pretty and desirable like not being able to keep my man's interest. Yay me. I am not a prude and I like sex. A lot. I've never been the "sorry, I have a headache" girlfriend that pushes her man to other women. What the hell is going on here?? Are all men just players? That must be it.
-Have you ever cheated on anyone?
Almost. It was not my finest moment. I still regret it. The relationship was basically over, but that still doesn't excuse it.
-Have you ever had your heart broken?
Twice. It doesn't feel great.
-Have you ever broken someone's heart?
I don't know. No one has ever seemed all that broken up to me. Maybe guys hide it better.
-Talk to any of your ex's?
All but one. Just because you can't be in a relationship with someone anymore does not mean that the original reasons you liked them as a person aren't there anymore. It has definitely taken me longer to come around to some than others :p The plus side to being friends with them is that I don't care if they are man whores, cause they aren't doing it to me. I can sit back and feel sorry for their new girlfriends, haha! -If you could go back in time and change things to where you could still be with one of your ex's, would you?
Nope. Those relationships ended for good reasons. And I am happy where I am at now.
-Think any of your ex's feel the same way?
I don't think any of them want me back. Well maybe one..... but I just pretend to not know that. It makes me feel squirmy :p
-Do you believe that you are a good boyfriend or girlfriend?
I think so. I try.
-Have you dated people who were not good for you?
-Have you been in an abusive relationship?
Yes. Abusive relationships are not a good time. Probably the darkest point in my life. I ran into him about a year ago and literally felt like I was going to vomit.
-Have you dated someone older then you?
6 years older.
-Dated someone younger then you?
5 years younger. -Do you regret anything that you have or havent done with a boyfriend or girlfriend?
Hehehe, is this a dirty question? Because aside from some clothing optional activities, no there isn't anything that I regret not doing ;) As for what I do regret doing..... I can't really think of anything. - Do you believe everyone deserves a second chance?
No. I rarely give out second chances. We all know right from wrong. We should have to live with the consequences of our actions. If you screw me over why would I want to let you do it again?
-Believe in love at first sight?
No. That is just stupid. I believe that you can have chemistry at first sight. That's it though. How could you possible love someone you don't even know?
-Ever dated two people at once?
Yes. But not like in serious relationships where we weren't supposed to see other people. I am talking about casually dating.
-Ever been given an Engagement ring?
Yes. I think it is still in my jewelry box.
-Do you have something to say to any of your ex's?
Not really. I am pretty good at saying what I want to say. I don't hold much back.
-Ever stole someones boyfriend or girlfriend?
Hahaha, no. But apparently I did steal a guy that my friend was interested in. Even though I asked her if she had a thing for him and she said no. My mind reading powers must have been on the fritz that day ;p
-Ever liked someone else's boyfriend or girlfriend?
Nope. No offense to any of my friends, but your men are not really my type :p